Family Concerns

Don’t Let These Burst Your Bubble

It is a blatant lie that men like this and that in a woman and will not look at you twice if you lack a criterion in their checklist. That is rotten. In the first place, not all men are walking Adonises. They also have their physical and character flaws, and sad to say, not all are perfect lovers.

Oftentimes, it is too late to discover this. It is only after you have shopped for engravable flasks and engravable cufflinks and had your undying love for him “etched in stone” like in those nice personalized groomsmen gifts, that his eyes start to roam, and you begin wondering if the stories are true.

Here are the common ego busters to bust:

* All men are attracted to reed-thin women with healthy front acts. This is the most ego-deflating of all myths, especially if you are heavy on the bottom with little to be proud of upfront. Do not sweat, majority of men like sexy bottoms, so there is hope.
* Men do not like smart women. This is one more fallacy to bust. Men adore smart women too. So drop that dumb Dora act when he is around.
* The way to man’s heart is through his stomach. Woe to you if you cannot cook a simple omelet. But what are fast-food chains for? If he does not how to boil an egg, he should not be demanding of your culinary talent.
* Men can only love young women. It has been proven several times that young men fall for older women too. Examples? Demi Moore (42) and Ashton Kutcher (27), and Jane Felix Browne (52) and Omar Osama bin Laden (22). Is this not wonderful?
* Men like blue-eyed-blonde-haired women best. Well, they cannot always have their cake and eat it too. Blue-eyed blondes are attractive but there are brunettes, red-heads, and black-haired beauties who can turn heads.
* Men like women to be submissive slaves and clinging vines. Men are easily bored with yes-women. They want women to have spunk and daring. They are easily irritated with women who cannot think for themselves.
* Women who can pick a lock are no-nos. Why should men have sole license to pick locks, repair doors, and fix the sink? Secretly men are glad that women can fend for themselves. So show off your skills if you can.

Debunking these myths can save your sanity and future romance. Be a woman of your own worth. Be confident with your weight, your height, and your flaws. This self confidence will ooze through your pores. Always remember the following things: men like the soft skin of women, their scent, the way they walk, and the way they laugh.

Regardless of what they say, true love cannot be orchestrated. It just happens and when it does, it defies all myths. No, do not trust the lot
you hear. That hunk could fall for you. You could sing the movie theme song of Carrie - “I never dreamed someone like you could love someone like me” like there is no tomorrow.